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Afshari Kashanian O, Zahrakar K, Mohsen Zadeh F, Tajik Esmaili A A. Detection of Predisposing factors in women marital infidelity. QJCR 2019; 18 (71) :121-154
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Aim: The purpose of this study was to investigate the causes of marital infidelity in women. Method: The method of this research was qualitative. The 17 women who experienced marital infidelity and were willing to cooperate with the researcher were selected through targeted sampling. They were deeply studied using semi-structured interviews. The study used the Grounded Theory approach to explain and analyze the findings. Finding: Three major categories were found about the causes of female marital infidelity. The causes of marital infidelity Included the boredom of life after each other's discovery, the inherent weaknesses of marriage, vulnerability when sexual or emotional need blocked, and Society transformation, The conservator factors Included the desire to experience excitement, the disclaimer of self and the emphasis on spouse features, to earn much creativity in gaining time for a relationship and hiding it, gaining courage for discovering new features in yourself, And responding to infidelity Included desire for divorce, Restoration of marital life, endurance of stress. Conclusion: To prevent marital infidelity, family education and enrichment of premarital relationships, these categories should be considered.
Type of Study: Research |
Received: 2018/04/13 | Accepted: 2020/02/9 | Published: 2020/02/9
Received: 2018/04/13 | Accepted: 2020/02/9 | Published: 2020/02/9
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